Hi Sliq, this is my burning issue:
There used to be a man who rented a room in our home. He seemed happily married and showered his wife with love. But when they moved away, everything changed. A few months ago, I unexpectedly bumped into him, and he confessed that he had always harbored feelings for me. He claimed he had to hide those feelings while living with his family, but now that he had moved away, he wanted us to be something serious.
At first, I was hesitant. I’m in college, and I didn’t want to complicate my life with a man who already had a wife and kids. But he persisted, showering me with affection—offering rides to school, treating me to manicures, and surprising me with gifts like roses and earrings. It felt nice to be adored, especially when I was already feeling the weight of exams and expectations.
However, things took a dramatic turn last night. He saw a message from my actual boyfriend on my phone and exploded with rage. It was shocking to see him get so emotional over our relationship when he has a family of his own. In a heated conversation, he even called my boyfriend, who was understandably confused when confronted about our relationship. My boyfriend confirmed that we were serious, but the man got physical, raising his hand as if to hit someone but breaking down into tears instead.
Panicked, I jumped out of his car and ran home, heart racing. He followed me, but I made it inside and shut the door behind me. Since then, he has been bombarding my phone with calls, but I’ve chosen not to answer.
Now I’m at a crossroads. Should I confront him about his behavior and set clear boundaries, or should I cut ties entirely? And what about my boyfriend—how do I explain this tangled mess without hurting him? How can I protect my heart while dealing with the fallout of this complicated situation?
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