Hi Sliq, this is my burning issue:
My cousin's sister recently had her traditional wedding, but the situation surrounding it was anything but smooth. After both of her parents passed away, it was just her and her older brother left to navigate life. My aunt (tete) approached me, saying I had to step in as the father figure during the wedding proceedings because her brother had been causing chaos and even attacked my aunt.
I agreed to take on this role, but only if my aunt and cousin could resolve their ongoing issues for the sake of the family. After many conversations and interventions, they finally forgave each other.
However, during the roora ceremony, things took a turn for the worse. Our in-laws arrived without any money, unable to raise even a tenth of the bride price. I was stern, as advised, but in the end, I accepted what they offered, hoping it would bring peace.
When it came time to share the bride price, my cousin decided to keep the bulk of the money for himself and gave me a mere $25. I refused that and eventually got him to part with $65. The next day, I called to check on him, but he lashed out at me, hurling insults and even cursing my mother.
I feel he crossed the line, and I'm furious. The next time I see him, it won’t be pretty. How do I handle this escalating situation while trying to maintain family ties?
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