Burning Issue 09: Torn Between Love and Loyalty

Hi Sliq, this is my burning issue:

There used to be a man who rented a room in our home. He seemed happily married and showered his wife with love. But when they moved away, everything changed. A few months ago, I unexpectedly bumped into him, and he confessed that he had always harbored feelings for me. He claimed he had to hide those feelings while living with his family, but now that he had moved away, he wanted us to be something serious.

 

At first, I was hesitant. I’m in college, and I didn’t want to complicate my life with a man who already had a wife and kids. But he persisted, showering me with affection—offering rides to school, treating me to manicures, and surprising me with gifts like roses and earrings. It felt nice to be adored, especially when I was already feeling the weight of exams and expectations.

However, things took a dramatic turn last night. He saw a message from my actual boyfriend on my phone and exploded with rage. It was shocking to see him get so emotional over our relationship when he has a family of his own. In a heated conversation, he even called my boyfriend, who was understandably confused when confronted about our relationship. My boyfriend confirmed that we were serious, but the man got physical, raising his hand as if to hit someone but breaking down into tears instead.

Panicked, I jumped out of his car and ran home, heart racing. He followed me, but I made it inside and shut the door behind me. Since then, he has been bombarding my phone with calls, but I’ve chosen not to answer.

Now I’m at a crossroads. Should I confront him about his behavior and set clear boundaries, or should I cut ties entirely? And what about my boyfriend—how do I explain this tangled mess without hurting him? How can I protect my heart while dealing with the fallout of this complicated situation?

Burning Issue 08: A Twist of Fate: When Life Gets Complicated

Hi Sliq, this is my burning issue:

So, my husband suddenly had an epiphany about life being too short and that we needed to “live a little”—whatever that means. Honestly, I kind of suspected something was off, but I didn't want to jump to conclusions and doubt my man. Then, one day, I stumbled upon flight tickets and hotel bookings for two.

Curiosity piqued, I took note of the dates and decided to make my own arrangements for a little getaway for two. My friends had mentioned that there are guys out there willing to spend money on vacations with no strings attached—essentially a fling—and that intrigued me. I figured, why not?

So, I made road bookings, planning to arrive much later than him. When I finally got there, guess who I saw all cozy and holding hands with another woman? Yep, my husband, living it up! I waved at him, and he almost dropped her hand in shock. He came over, insisting that we leave immediately, even though his partner had a return ticket. He made a scene, and I told him he was embarrassing her.

We ended up leaving together—me, my escort, and my husband all squeezed into the same car for the long drive home. It’s been a day since that awkward encounter, and he hasn’t said a word to me, while my escort and I are feeling rather happy and carefree.

Now, I'm left wondering, what should I do next? Should I confront him about his betrayal, or should I let this new dynamic unfold naturally? How do I navigate this tangled mess of emotions and relationships?

Burning Issue 07: Trust and Transition: A Maid's Dilemma

Hi Sliq, this is my burning issue

I’ve spent the last six years working as a maid, trying to provide for my family, and now my husband is asking me to stop working. He promises that he will help me start a business at the beginning of the new year. On the surface, that sounds like a great opportunity, but there’s a catch.

While we do get along at times, our relationship is rocky. There are periods where he goes quiet, and I can feel the tension between us. We have one child together, and I appreciate that he is the breadwinner and offers some support. However, I’m aware that he has cheated in the past, and, honestly, I can’t say I’ve been faithful either.

Now, I’m left wondering if I can trust him or if he’s just trying to give me a “paper 2,” as we say here—a way to keep me from having my own independence while he maintains his affairs. Should I take the leap and trust his promise for a better future, or is this just another trap? How do I navigate this situation without losing my own sense of self?

Burning Issue 06: Family Feud: When Traditions Tear Us Apart

Hi Sliq, this is my burning issue:

My cousin's sister recently had her traditional wedding, but the situation surrounding it was anything but smooth. After both of her parents passed away, it was just her and her older brother left to navigate life. My aunt (tete) approached me, saying I had to step in as the father figure during the wedding proceedings because her brother had been causing chaos and even attacked my aunt.

I agreed to take on this role, but only if my aunt and cousin could resolve their ongoing issues for the sake of the family. After many conversations and interventions, they finally forgave each other.

However, during the roora ceremony, things took a turn for the worse. Our in-laws arrived without any money, unable to raise even a tenth of the bride price. I was stern, as advised, but in the end, I accepted what they offered, hoping it would bring peace.

When it came time to share the bride price, my cousin decided to keep the bulk of the money for himself and gave me a mere $25. I refused that and eventually got him to part with $65. The next day, I called to check on him, but he lashed out at me, hurling insults and even cursing my mother.

I feel he crossed the line, and I'm furious. The next time I see him, it won’t be pretty. How do I handle this escalating situation while trying to maintain family ties?

 

Burning Issue 05: Banished and Broken: Pregnant, Grieving, and Unacknowledged

 

Hi Sliq, this is my burning issue:

I had been cohabitating with my man for the past year and a half. He never introduced me to his family because he had cut ties with them, following a prophecy that they were the ones responsible for his misfortune and struggles in life. He believed they were bewitching him, so he distanced himself from them completely.

Two days ago, he decided to reconnect with his family and had planned to meet with them. But on his way to meet them, something tragic happened—he fell ill suddenly and passed away.

Now, I’m in a terrible situation. None of his family acknowledges me. They’ve banned me from attending his funeral, and to make matters worse, I’m pregnant with his child. I feel lost, disrespected, and rejected during this most painful time.

What should I do, Sliq? How do I navigate this painful situation, especially with a child on the way and no support from his family?

Burning Issue 10: A Heart Torn Between Trust and Betrayal

Hi Sliq, this is my burning issue:

I’ve been feeling a growing sense of suspicion about my wife’s loyalty lately. Just last month, we got a lift from a man who seemed overly familiar with her. When she got into the car, he flashed a big smile and she suddenly avoided eye contact, casting glances at me as if to gauge my reaction. It was as if she was trying to hide something. The man even made hints about knowing her drop-off point, which didn’t sit right with me.

Then, two weeks ago, I decided to surprise her with a visit at her workplace. To my shock, the same man from the lift was waiting in the reception area. The moment he saw me, he started chatting up the other guys there and quickly left. When I asked one of the guys who he was, I learned that he was just there to pick her up, as they lived in the same neighborhood. I didn’t confront my wife about it, but I couldn’t shake the feeling that something was off.

This past weekend, I hatched a plan to uncover the truth. I told her I was going on a work trip and asked our maid to keep an eye on things and text me if she noticed anything unusual. Early Saturday morning, I said my goodbyes, claiming I wouldn’t be back until Monday. Around 10 AM, I received a text from the maid saying she saw a car pull up and, to my horror, it was the same one again. I rushed over and found my wife in the car with him, leaning in to kiss him and playfully stroking his beard.

Furious and heartbroken, I jumped into the back seat and demanded her phone. She refused, so I got out and stormed back into the house, only to discover our child hadn’t even been bathed because she was too busy rushing to meet her lover.

Now I’m at a breaking point. I’m seriously contemplating whether to send her back to her relatives as a way to show her the consequences of her actions. But I’m also torn about how to handle this situation without further damaging our family. What should I do? How can I confront her and address this betrayal while still considering our child’s well-being?

Behind the Mic: The Creative Genius of Keith "Sliq Kay" Khoza

 

Ever wonder what goes into creating a dynamic radio show? Keith Khoza has perfected this art. Known for his smooth delivery, sharp wit, and ability to connect with his audience, The Sliq One has become a household name in Zimbabwean media.

 

Beyond the mic, Keith is also an editor, scriptwriter, and content curator, making him a multi-talented force in the entertainment industry. In this blog, we explore the creative process behind some of his most popular radio shows, including FirePower and The Weekend Waya Waya, and how he balances being a presenter, executive producer, and more.

Burning Issue 04: Circumcision Decision: I'm 18, But Now I'm Struggling

 

Hi Sliq, this is my burning issue:

I just turned 18 last month, and I was really excited to finally be an adult. During a men’s health talk at school, all the boys were encouraged to get circumcised. I decided to go ahead and asked my mother for permission, but she refused.

Still, I went against her wishes and got circumcised. Now, she’s not taking it well at all, and my family, especially my big brothers, have been making fun of me for my decision. It's become an uncomfortable situation at home with all the teasing.

But now, I’m facing a bigger problem. I’ve noticed that I’m not healing properly, but I’m too scared to ask for help because everyone has been laughing at me ever since I made my choice.

I know it’s my body, and I made the decision for myself, but now I’m stuck in a corner. What should I do, Sliq? Should I push past the teasing and seek help, or should I just keep quiet?

Burning Issue 03: From Bet to Love: Should I Tell Her the Truth?

Hi Sliq, this is my burning issue:

I’m 25, and my girlfriend and I have been dating for six months now. But the problem is how it all started. It was a bet with my boys. You see, she’s one of those distant, independent women that most guys are too afraid to approach. So, to prove I was the man, I took on the bet to ask her out, with the “relationship” meant to last for six months.

But here’s the twist: along the way, I actually fell for her. She’s amazing, strong, and real—everything I never expected. Now, I’m caught up in a mess. Should I tell her the truth about how this all started as a game? But if I do, won’t she break up with me for good?

I don’t want to lose her, but I feel like the guilt is eating me alive. What should I do, Sliq?

 

Burning Issue 02: Should I Sacrifice Everything for Family?

Hi Sliq, this is my burning issue:

I’ve been a hairdresser for over 10 years now. A lot of the people I started with are now driving cars, opening salons, and moving up, but I’m still stuck. You see, I have a lot on my plate. I take care of my younger sister and her child because she’s unemployed and lives with me. I’ve also been the one looking after my mother, who’s been sick for a while now.

Recently, I brought up the idea of hiring someone to take care of mum, but my sister and brother pushed back. My sister is struggling to find proper work, and my brother is a hustler, always in and out of small deals, so they both suggested I handle the cost of getting a caregiver since I have a “steady income.” I couldn’t say no because mum was getting worse, so I hired someone to help.

But just two weeks later, mum chased the caregiver away, complaining that she was rude and disrespectful. Now, my siblings have turned on me again. They’re saying I should leave my work and move to the rural areas to take care of mum full-time! But I’m the one putting food on the table for everyone. How do they expect me to leave my only source of income and drop everything? How am I supposed to survive, let alone help them?

I feel trapped, Sliq. I want to help, but I don’t know how much more I can sacrifice before I lose everything.

From Power FM to Jive TV: The Journey of The Sliq One

There’s a certain magic that happens when you tune in to a show by Keith Khoza, aka The Sliq One. Whether it’s on Power FM’s FirePower or the versatile segments of The Weekend Waya Waya, one thing is for sure—you’re in for a ride.

Starting as a voice on radio, Keith has now made waves on Jive TV, curating and producing some of the most dynamic content for Zimbabwe’s youth. His transition from radio to television shows his adaptability and passion for growth in the media space. In this blog, we’re diving deep into how Sliq Kay became the media mogul he is today, his contributions to Jive TV, and his plans for the future.

Key Highlights:

• Transition from radio presenter to Executive Producer and TV personality.
• His unique style that captivates both radio and TV audiences.
• The strategic collaborations and content creation for Jive TV, keeping it at the forefront of youth entertainment.

Burning Issue 01: Is It Time to Follow My Heart or Stay Loyal to My Friend?

 

So, I have this friend—let's call her Tari—whom I’ve been tight with since high school. A few months ago, she broke up with her boyfriend, Tadiwa. They had been dating for over three years, but it got bad towards the end. Lots of fighting, and sometimes they wouldn't talk for days. Throughout all that drama, Tadiwa would confide in me, telling me how things were going south. I was always there, offering advice, and funny enough, I kept telling him to hold on, to try and fix things with Tari, even though I low-key had a massive crush on him.

Now that they’ve broken up, Tari's moved on and is seeing someone new—an older guy her friend introduced her to. She seems to be focusing on this new relationship and has pretty much left Tadiwa in the past. The thing is, I’m single… and now, so is Tadiwa.

Tadiwa's smart, attractive, and genuinely a good guy. Part of me feels like this might be my chance to finally shoot my shot. But another part feels guilty because of my friendship with Tari. She hasn’t said much about her breakup with him, and I don't know how she'd feel if she found out I was considering him.

So Sliq, the question is: Is it okay for me to consider dating him now, or should I keep my distance? I'm torn between my feelings for him and my loyalty to my friend.

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Rumbidzai Geraldine "Gee Mac" Makawa is a Zimbabwean Musician based in the United Kingdom. She is a versatile vocalist who's talents are to propelling her music career to dissy heights.

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