#KeyQuestion How often do you need to have sex?

A 40-year study that surveyed more than 30,000 people found in 2015 that couples who have sex once a week are the happiest. So, should couples put a number on how often they hop in the bed?
Some people want to have sex every day, and they are.
Other people have other priorities, so sex isn’t on the top of their list, so they are having it less.
Most couples and individuals want to know the same thing: Is my sex life with my partner normal?
They want to know if they are having enough sex, the right kind of sex, if their partner wants too much sex,
Sometimes, they’re worried that they should be doing something totally different in bed.

Forget about ‘normal'
Normal is a setting on the washing machine, nothing more.
What’s most important is that you learn to have empathy for your partner and accept whatever their needs might be, even if they are different than your own

#KeyQuestion Have you ever had Boring Sex?

Lot’s of relationships go through ho-hum periods in the sex department.  Sex that used to be fun, exciting and crazy hot has now become boring, mundane and predictable.

6 Simple Ideas to Banish Boring Sex

1. MASTURBATE
Not only will masturbation amp up your “wanna do it” mojo, it’s also an amazing self-discovery tool.
 Experiment with your body. Try touching yourself in new ways. You’ll probably be surprised-  finding new spots that feel kinda awesome, different sensations and updated variations to what turns you on…oh, that’s some pretty great shit right there.
Make a date with yourself and do some pleasure-based research.

2. COMMUNICATE
Talking about sex is healthy (and hot). 
It lets you (and your partner) know a new thing or twenty about each of your likes/desires- and even the opposite – things that aren’t necessarily revving you up. 
These conversations make for great foreplay.
Talking about sex, well, it’s just sexy. And. it gets the brain (your largest sex organ!) juices flowing!

3. CHANGE IT UP
If you’re able to do a play-by-play of how the sex goes just about every time you do it then it’s definitely time to switch it up! 
Mix up that boring “A-Z, touch me there, flip, rinse, repeat” sex.  Try a new position.  Do it at a different time of the day.  Move away from the bed and into the laundry room (on the machine… on the spin cycle…!).
Variety is the spice of (your totally amazing sex) life!

4. BRING A LITTLE ROLE/FANTASY PLAY INTO THE MIX
We’re taking it back to #2 and communication (remember, YOUR BRAIN IS YOUR LARGEST SEX ORGAN)! 
Talk with your partner about your fantasies, what turns you both on. Add a little of those to your play and voila’! you’ve got some steamy role play action happenin’! 
Role/Fantasy play could be as mild as reliving a past sexy experience to as wild as…. well, as long as you both think it could be kinda hot, I say GO FOR IT!

5. INCORPORATE A SEX TOY
Despite popular belief, sex toys aren’t just for solo play.
Show them how you masturbate with your toy, let them explore your body with it, bring it to the main event…
Since about 75-ish +/- % of female bodies need some form of clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, a vibe could be the perfect accompaniment on your quest for better sex!
If I was ever stranded on an island and could only bring along one vibrator, the Tango, without a doubt, would be the one.  Read my review of the Tango here.

6. PLEASE GET THE F* OUT OF YOUR HEAD
This one’s such a biggy- When you cloud your brain with everything-but-the-present thoughts it’s pretty damn difficult to enjoy what’s happening right now. 
Of course the sex is boring.  You’re too busy thinking about everything EXCEPT all the good stuff that’s happening right in front of you that you could totally be enjoying!  
It might sound cliche’, but start being more mindful in the sack and you’ll have better sex.
Get creative, think outside the box, and most importantly, HAVE FUN!  Sex is healthy, it relieves stress, it brings partners together… IT’S JUST PLAIN GOOD!

KeyQuestion What is your favourite sex position? and i will tell you what it says about your personality

Body language often points to personality traits, and sex positions are no different. There are five base placements that every sexual position is derived from. Each one can grants insight into your sexual attitude and perspective, and those of your partner. Take a look at these positions and see how you measure up to the revelations of each one.

Missionary

If full-on, belly-to-belly contact while gazing into your partner’s eyes during sex play is your thing, chances are you’re a person who enjoys connecting. The ability to look into your partner’s eyes and observe their reactions to the things you do to their body assists you in remaining connected. You enjoy communication and having control of your partner’s stimulation since you have access to their nipples, lips, belly and pelvis. Missionary styles vary depending on the positioning of the legs but any time the passive partner is laying on their back, it’s missionary.

Doggy style

If grabbing onto your partner’s hips and entering them from behind is your go to position, it’s clear that you are a man that likes to take charge. This position is one where the passive partner is on all fours, face away from the person who is stroking. The lack of intimacy in this position means, if it’s your primary go-to, you prefer to have no emotional attachment with your partner. If you’re the passive party in this position, you also enjoy being dominated and get off on the loss of control.

Spooning

This cradling position indicates that you enjoy being intimate and close to your partner during sex. You like feeling their body heat and want them to feel safe and protected during sex. This position is typically a favorite of someone who is compassionate and conscious of his/her partner’s comfort and pleasure during sex.

Partner on Top

This indicates that you enjoy having your partner take the lead and putting their pleasure first. You also like being dominated and relinquishing your power during sex to allow your partner to have the control. You may be into smothering and feeling smaller than your partner if having them on top is how you like it.

 Standing Positions

These positions are often performed using the edge of a piece of furniture for support or against a wall. Going straight for standing positions can allude to an adventurous spirit that has a preference for challenges during sex. The man that enjoys having sex standing requires trust and openness from their partner to experiment with how to make this position work for both during sex play.